Regardless of how/when it happens, you’ll NEVER forget what you went through…but when your un-anniversary falls on a holiday, how’s that for an in-your-face reminder!!!!
I got married on Memorial Day weekend 13 years ago. The marriage lasted about 6 years, the first 3 of them were happy, the last 3…not so much. Although my marriage didn’t last, I learned A LOT!!!!
Don’t cry for me Argentina, I’m not downplaying the process it took to get here, but I’m digging the new and improved post-divorce Kindra. I actually like her a lot! And, the other side is quite nice, less debt, less drama, I can decorate my place any way I want without someone complaining…and most importantly, it’s peaceful!!!!!
So, here’s what, when choosing your wedding date, stay far away from holidays! Just for the sake of if it doesn’t work out, you won’t have the blaring reminder of your un-anniversary falling on a holiday. The upside is that if you’re feeling down, there’s always a holiday sale going on, and retail therapy is good for the soul ☺️
And, whoever husband number 2 is, I’m better prepared for the 2nd time around, thanks to what I’ve been through, so it actually was a blessing in disguise and I’m thankful! Happy Memorial Day weekend!